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how do i tell them??

May 16th 2008
  teen-mom  
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i am only 14 and im about to have a child. i will be 2 months on the 29th. the daddy is bout to go to collage and he is 17. we concived the baby in the moveis. i dont no how to tell my family that i am pregnant. and i go through stomach pain everyday, im very emotional and all tthat other stuff.. can someone please give me advice. i also need to inform his mom that i am with child.

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User 1
May 17th 2008
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wow that really bits well i would just go to his house and sit down with them all and tell them its very hard to do but it will be worth it in the end. and dont let them control your life just becuse your pregnant, if you want the baby that has nothing to do with them its your body and your baby! good luck!!!
~love renee
p.s. i`m 16

User 1
May 19th 2008
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Please go see a doctor, first and foremost. All of your options, including how best to approach talking to your parents, will be laid out for you.

User 1
Jun 1st 2008
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If you have aim please add me so we can talk. hhchmh hope to hear from you.

User 1
Jun 3rd 2008
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wow but im in the same position...except im bout 2 b 16 in 2wkz....just find the courage.....god will help you through it....

User 1
Jul 18th 2008
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my mom made me abort the baby which is something i dnt believe n.. i didnt want to do it but she made me.. but thanks for the advice nd support

User 1
Jul 18th 2008
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oh my your only 14? But thats cool. What i would do is just go somewhere quiet and talk to his mom and your family.Believe me it will go fine. im 16 and have a baby on the way.And its gonna be scary to tell your family but thats the best thing to do. and CONGRADULATIONS! You will do great. need hopefully this helps.

User 1
Jul 19th 2008
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you should tell ur parents imidietly! they will help you. and yes it might be scary at first, but soon they will be ok with it. and y did she make u abort? did u tell the daddy?

User 1
Jul 31st 2008
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I think you and your boyfriend should sit your parents and his mother down and then both of you's can tell them because you's are in this together not just you, but you should imidietly go see a doctor and make sure everything is ok, but trust me once you tell them you will feel alot better and less worried, it will turn out find I was in your same shoes about 8 years ago and I was so scared but it actually turn out well, so it will go fine. Just remember that it's your baby and your body and don't let anyone make you do something you don't want to do. CONGRATES!!!! You will do great with god by yourside

User 1
Aug 1st 2008
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all you had to do to stop the abortion is tell the doctor you dont want it done... he has to stop or you could sew (sp?) him for alot of money.
just so everyone knows that.

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