Pregnancy & Birth Discussion

i have 3 children myself and my first one and my most recent one was not planned I know my situation is a little different b/c i am with the father. If you feel you are not financially ready for this child would you ever consider putting the baby up for adoption. Do your other two kids know that you are prego?? That would be another question I would ask myself- would my kids want me to give away their brother or sister. I would have the child and if you think you are not finacially ready I would give it up for adoption you have a tough choice to make but you need to decide what is best for you and your baby!!

Asiaclay28 please do not have an abortion. I am not able to have children and would LOVE to have one. If you can\'t afford the new baby maybe adoption. Make a family estatic!!! Like me!! Best of luck!!

Your baby is a precious gift, and if you cannot keep him/her, please consider adoption. I can\'t pretend to know your struggles, but abortion is not the answer. Your child could be the most amazing gift that you give to a childless or infertile couple. If you don\'t know where to turn, find a local church or an adoption agency and speak to someone about your situation.

My first child I gave to an adopting couple because I was getting out of a short marriage to an abusive husband. I never saw or got any info on the new parents. But I never doubted my decision.

I got married again a year later and had a daughter. When she was twenty, she got pregnant by a guy who left her. She decided to give the child to an adopting couple just as I had years earlier.

This time I was able to meet the new parents. They couldn\'t conceive children of their own. I will never forget the day we handed over the baby and the look on their faces. My daughter was able to pick them out from a number of profiles.

Your guy doesn\'t want any financial obligation, so let him know he can sign away his parental rights and you won\'t come after him for money because you will have the child adopted.

Contact a local agency to get one on one counseling and help with the legal matters. We used LDS Family Services which was free. Here\'s their website: https://www.itsaboutlove.org/ial/ct/eng/site/pregnant/.

Best wishes to you and your baby.

DON\'T!!! there\'s a lot of people out there that want babies and cant have them... my sister in law cant have babies and she wants me to carry her baby for her but i cant carry one and have to give it up... maybe adoption would be right for y7ou i just don\'t believe in abortion..

I understand your concern. You probably have already decided what to do now with your little one and I\'m sure you made the right choice for you and your family.

Please consider adoption.

Dont get an abortion because it will haunt you for the rest of your life the right thing you can do is adoption so that baby can have a happy life so the family can give it everything it will ever want

i am having the SAME SITUATION!!! with the a guy i have known for ten years also from the same schools all through out those years. though i am 19 and very young... i told my babies daddy, that it was MY child.. and i couldnt imagine doing that abortion thing, i thought i would look back. EVERY day. wondering... what if? i killed my OFFSPRING. i could not go through that. MY family is supportive. and if anything his will be there too. i want to see her beautiful smile.. and i cant wait to waking up at night and changing diapers, singing her to sleep at night. i raised my mothers child, up til a year ago. hes four. please tell me how things work out... whats better for who? this is the first time i realized SOMEONE comes before anything (including me) IN LIFE<3333 you wont regret it. those eyes and that smile and i know you know. :) i wish you the best <3 stay straong. please e-mail or write back. sadieheide@gmail.com

right now i cant afford my baby either. this is my first time being pregnant and trust me i know i have no clue..yet. but abortion? there are so many families that are in need of a child. theres a family out there willing to open their hearts to your child. theyve got open adoption where you still have a part in your childs life, and they will help you finacially and its not that bad.ive called an adoption agency when i first found out i was pregnant just incase i was to give up my baby i would know some about it...theres other options but its always your choice...whichever your choice may be, its going to be okay.

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http://www.jesus-is-savior.com/Evils%20in%20America/Abortion%20is%20Murder/horror_of_abortion.htm
dont you dare do this to a living being.... dont do this to your child!!!!

What they do is one, poison the child. Or they mangle the child with a super suctioned blade and suck up his body parts. Then he uses sharp prongs to crush the head that is left free floating in the uterus and then that is sucked out as well.... watch it on youtube called the silent scream. You\'ll see what happens to the child on ultra sound. It made the abortionist quit his job and turned the feminist nurse (the ultrasound camera operator) completely around. She never again spoke of abortion. Watch it I dare you.